A very clever piece of writing as well. I’d read your give-away post and still didn’t guess the ending

I’m fine with the title Daddy. To me it’s the equivalent of Dominant or Master but with a more caring, not so extreme connotation. It’s only when combined with Little Girl that the age thing is implied. That’s probably why I’ve always found myself using the title Princess.

To me, Princess has two meanings. First is a young girl of extreme importance and beauty that deserves everything good the world has to offer. Second is of a young girl that is spoiled rotten, totally dependent on others and often in need of a good spanking. Basically, everything that Little Girl implies to others but without the age play overtones.

To each his own. That’s great if Daddy and Little Girl are working for you. Who knows, it sounds like Richard might be enjoying the fact that you’re a bit uncomfortable with the Little Girl title.

Chantal, you are right as usual. Except that I would say instead of “generally, a girls dad is the first man to give her that feeling of protectiveness and feelings of being the most special girl in the whole word”, that for many women they never got that and this is a way to get it a bit later in life. My father was a pretty typical hands-off dad, leaving most of the parenting to my mother. With Richard, I feel like the center of his world and it is indescribably wonderful.

Little girl, it is great to see you here. I love your blog - you are such a great writer and so insightful. Will be adding it to our blogroll (along with meg’s new blog) asap. I definitely do the sort of things you talk about - pouting and its consequences etc. When I think of ageplay I guess I think more along the lines of pretending that I actually AM 6 years old.

Thanks Jz, and I agree re mature women behaving like little girls. It’s something I’ve thought about as we age. Having said that, I don’t think anyone other than Richard would see me as “girly” and he’s made the point that when we are in bed…he DEFINITELY sees me as a woman.

Agreed B, and hope things are continuing to go well for you and yours.

Hi possession and welcome! It IS great to have that, although I have to be careful re my sister because she is a bit of a gossip, but. Noone from our “real life” except Megan knows about our blog, because I think it would really hamper how we write. (Well, Chantal does, but we met her here!)

xoAmy

Btw, i’m glad to see you both posting again! i began reading your blog this summer and went way back into your archives. i was hoping i hadn’t found it too late - glad to see i wasn’t.

~p

“Ewww,” maybe but wrong or right? Nah…

My girl and I say “Eww” about a great deal of other’s kink, but neither of us judges (Ok, maybe a bit). My girl calls me ‘Daddy’ at times and other times Master and other times my name, or even ‘hey you…big guy!” It’s all part n’ parcel of the relationship, and if she feels a certain way at one time to inhabit a younger spirit, how lovely.

Nice to be able to sit at dinner with the like-minded. Perhaps one of these days we will find a compatible couple and do the same. Finding that couple seems to be difficult, but maybe one day…

Hope all is well,

B

I’m pretty much of the same mind that, as long it’s two consenting adults, most anything goes. However, that said, I’m not entirely comfortable with age-play. Not because it smacks of pedophilia, however, but because whenever I see a grown woman acting out as a little girl, I hear my mother’s voice exclaiming, “How asinine!” My mind can know that whatever floats your boat is fine but sometimes mama is just LOUD. (Not having heard her voice in nearly 38 years tho, even a memory sounds good…)

I can certainly see how a Daddy/lg dynamic could be appealing, however. My flavor of D/s isn’t a 24/7 one but if it were, I think Daddy/lg would fit better than Master/slave, probably for the same reason you had issues with those terms. There’s just a connotation there that isn’t me. Not wrong, just not *me*.

Anyhow, I enjoyed that. Thanks! -Jz

I echo the sentiment that it’s lovely to see you popping up in my reader again. Yay! This topic is very near and dear to my heart, even though I’ve never been in a long term Daddy/little girl relationship. I know that feeling that you talk about where you get weirded out that perhaps a prediliction for Daddy/little girl play is about pedophilia or incest.

For me, it has never been about incest (as in, I don’t have any sexual thoughts about my actual family, and I never want to pretend that my “Daddy” is my real dad). And, it’s never been about pedophilia in the sense that I don’t want my Daddy to be “into” real children at all (that would leave me out in the cold at 28). But I *do* want my Daddy to love the little girlishness about me (which is probably a little more age-play than you are into, idk). For example, I’m a pouter and I sometimes need to be talked to like I’m a wayward child (”don’t stomp your foot, young lady! you know where that will get you?”) So even though I am a fully developed woman that could never be mistaken for an actual child, I sometimes act like a child (don’t we all?) and when I do, I want someone to respond to me appropriately.

My thoughts on Daddy/little girl relationships is that it’s not about role playing an adult wanting to have sex with daughter/niece, other young child–whatever. I guess for some, it is like that, but it’s not something that crosses my mind when it comes to the pair of you. Not that you need my validation on it on or anything, LOL.

What attracts me to the Daddy/little girl is the feeling of protectiveness and being cared for on every level. The actual terms “Daddy”/”little girl” could stem from the fact that, generally, a girls dad is the first man to give her that feeling of protectiveness and feelings of being the most special girl in the whole word.
It’s a nice feeling, so why not bring that into your adult relationship, right?

I don’t have a background in psychology nor am I part of a Daddy/little girl relationship *sad pout*, so I may be off base, but those are me initial thoughts.

i think i would like to hear more about how “discreetly but not vanilla” you behave in public. and of course if there is more to this story i’m certainly intrigued.

nice to have you guys popping up in my google reader again.

xx
meg